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A Beginner’s Guide To Swinging: 5 Easy Steps

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For starters, we all know what swingers are right? We’ve all heard the stories of couples who “swing” or who go to one of “those” parties where only other couples are invited. Swinging is kind of like polyamory, but more heteronormative and traditional, having existed since forever. These couples are not interested in disrupting their monogamy, they only want to have sex with other people with the approval of their “true” partner.

It sounds a little messy, but a lot of people claim that it’s super fun if everyone’s on the same page. If you and your partner are interested in getting a little kinky and exploring some more, follow these set of rules that’ll ensure that no one gets hurt in the process and that your relationship remains open and trustworthy:

Why And How?

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It’s very important to figure out why you want to start swinging and tell your partner what you’re feeling. The environment between the two of you should be communicative and receptive, with no one feeling pressured to do something they don’t want to do. Swinging is great if you want to spice up your sex life or find a new sexual experience that you can share with your partner. If there’s an underlying issue in your relationship then swinging is not what you’re looking for, in fact, it’ll probably increase your problems and create a bigger rupture between you two.

Another important talking point to discuss with your partner is how you want to swing. There are all types of options according to your budget, from simple swinging neighborhood parties to more expensive ones like swinging cruises.

Be Clear About Your Rules

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If you’re new to this whole thing, be clear about the things that scare you and what you’d like your partner to do or not to. Discuss same sex relationships and what to do if you’re at an event and want to leave. Is it okay for your partner to stay behind without you or will you both be leaving? The more open and communicative you are the better.

Swinging Clubs

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Google is your friend. Look for swingers clubs around your area and read around for reviews of the place and the people. Try it out if you feel like you and your partner are going to have a good time there and be open to new experiences and acquaintances.

Online Dating

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Tinder, Bumble, whichever online dating site you prefer, the internet’s full of them and they’re there for a reason. If you’re too scared to throw yourself into a swinging party then try to get out of your comfort zone through the use of the web. Try chatting online with several different people and meeting up if they seem like they’re the right fit. Don’t stress if it doesn’t work out; try again.

Be Confident

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If you want to attract different kinds of people then be sure to work on your persona, carving out your best and most attractive self. It’s very common for swingers to use fake names and create alter egos; if you’re into that, go for it.

Video Of Woman With Cerebral Palsy Changes Texans’ Minds About Marijuana

Kara Zartler has severe autism and cerebral palsy. She lives in Richardson, Texas with her parents’ where some of her symptoms are extremely self-violent. In the video her parents made, we see Kara punching herself in the head repeatedly, being hugged by her father to hinder violent throes and the discomfort and fear on Kara’s face are obvious.

In another video, Kara is shown inhaling marijuana through a nebulizer during a fit. As the flailing calms and so does Kara, another miracle of medical marijuana is demonstrated, its impact clearing a path to potential medical legalization.

An intern to State Representative Eddie Lucio III was so moved by the video of Kara, that he immediately showed it to Lucio III. After watching the before and after videos the Representative was amazed and, “inspired to try and do something.”

House Bill 2017 to legalize medical cannabis was soon born, and though over half of the Texas House of Representatives supported the bill, it just wasn’t enough. Lucio III says that he will be pushing the legislation every session from now on until it passes.

He has an upward battle. Though there is bipartisan support, the Senate was even more skeptical than the house and the bill died before ever going to committee.

At this point, Texas law allows for patients with epilepsy to use CBD oil. However, in so many cases the full plant is needed for full benefit. Texas also can’t fool itself. Texans smoke marijuana despite stringent laws and families like the Zartlers won’t be stopping anytime soon.

Sadly, not all the news was good that came of the video. CPS knocked about two weeks after the video went live. Father Mark Zartler now is on record as an abuser, but the case is now closed and the family remains together.

With over half of the United States sporting at least medical cannabis bills, the efforts of Representative Lucio III are more than encouraging. One can only hope they find ears and hearts to hear. When a harmless plant is the best bet for preventing harm, it’s cruel to withhold and thankfully the nation continues to wake up and smell the healing more and more each day.

Gossip: Caitlyn Jenner Defends Donald Trump Russian Ties; Ben Affleck’s ‘Batman’ Script Was Scrapped

Caitlyn Jenner was asked if Trump has met with her regarding LGBT rights, as she has requested. “No,” she admitted. “He’s been busy lately. I understand that. I do a lot of political things. I would say 80, 90 percent of it is behind the scenes. I get more accomplished that way,” Jenner insisted.

“Politics is a dirty business. Let’s be honest,” and she went on to assert, “Hillary Clinton was out there looking for dirt on Trump. Trump was looking for dirt on Hillary. This is smear campaigns.” She further said, “Everyone’s talking to everybody. Recently, Trump was over there [in Europe]. And I think it’s good we have communications [with Russia].”

“We have to get somebody in there who can straighten things out. He’s shaken a lot of things up since he’s been in there and I think from that standpoint, that’s good. Give the guy some time. It’s been what, six months? Let’s give the guy some time.”

Ben Affleck’s ‘Batman’ Script Was Scrapped

Matt Reeves, who replaced Ben Affleck as the director for the upcoming Batman film, revealed Wednesday he will be starting from scratch when it comes to the script for the project.

Reeves told MTV’s “Happy Sad Confused” podcast that he’s “excited” to be starting fresh for The Batman.

When asked if he was using Affleck’s script — which was crafted when the star was directing the film — Reeves replied, “No, it’s a new story. It’s just starting again. I’m excited about it. I think it’s going to be really cool.”

Affleck stepped aside as director of the new film in January to focus on taking on his role as the Dark Knight. He had co-written the now-defunct script with Chris Terrio and Geoff Johns.

Reeves said he planned on a “noir” take of Batman for his script, according to The Hollywood Reporter. It’s unclear if the new director plans of keeping Joe Manganiello in the script, who was cast as villain Deathstroke in Affleck’s story.

Reeves’ announcement comes as his new movie War for the Planet of the Apes hits theaters this weekend. The film has already received positive reviews, creating more anticipation for what Reeves’ story for The Batman.

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This State Just Moved Closer To Decriminalizing All Drugs

Proponents are calling the move toward decriminalizing all drugs a victory for social justice. Opponents are calling it a “hug-a-thug policy.” But one thing is certain: It’s unprecedented.

The Oregon legislature late last week passed a bill late that would reclassify possession of heroin, methamphetamine, cocaine and other drugs from a felony to a misdemeanor. The bill will also lessen the punishments and expand access to drug treatment for people without prior convictions for possession.

“We are trying to move policy toward treatment rather than prison beds,” said Republican state Sen. Jackie Winters. “We can’t continue on the path of building more prisons when often the underlying root cause of the crime is substance use.”

The historic bill passed in the state’s house and senate. It is headed to the desk of Gov. Brown, who said she will sign it once it undergoes a legal review.

Kayse Jama, executive director of a civil rights organization Unite Oregon, called the bill “a victory for Oregonians who have been targeted by law enforcement because of who they are, where they come from or what they look like” and a “victory for law enforcement officers, who will receive needed training and an opportunity to rebuild trust in the communities they serve.”

But Democratic State Sen. Betsy Johnson argues that the concept is soft on crime, calling it a “hug-a-thug policy.”

“The proponents of these bills mistakenly believe that drug sentences damage people’s’ lives, but it’s the drugs that ruin people’s lives,” Johnson said. “I would like to end the odious practice of racial profiling, but I will not be associated with a bill that decriminalizes hard drugs.”

According to a report in the Washington Post:

Studies have shown that Oregon conviction rates disproportionately affect minorities. A 2015 study by the Oregon Criminal Justice Commission found that African-Americans in Oregon were convicted of felony drug possession at more than double the rate of white offenders; Native-Americans were convicted of drug possession at five times the rate of whites.

Oregon has the seventh-highest incarceration rate in state prisons for African-American males, according to a 2016 report by the Sentencing Project, a prison-reform advocacy group. Black people make up 2 percent of Oregon’s population but represent almost 10 percent of the people incarcerated in state prisons as of 2014, the study found.

Groups Who Have Endorsed Drug Decriminalization:

  • United Nations
  • World Health Organization
  • International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies
  • American Public Health Association
  • Human Rights Watch
  • American Civil Liberties Union
  • Movement for Black Lives
  • NAACP
  • Latino Justice
  • National Latino Congreso
  • Organization of American States

The Effects Of Drug Decriminalization:

  • Reduces the number of people arrested, incarcerated, or otherwise swept into the justice system, thereby allowing people, their families and communities to avoid the many harms that flow from drug arrests, incarceration, and the lifelong burden of a criminal record;
  • Alleviates racial, ethnic and income-based disparities in the criminal justice system;
  • Improves the cost-effectiveness of limited public health resources;
  • Revises the current law enforcement incentive structure and redirects resources to prevent serious and violent crime;
  • Creates a climate in which people who are using drugs problematically have an incentive to seek treatment;
  • Improves treatment outcomes (when treatment is called for);
  • Removes barriers to the implementation of practices that reduce the potential harms of drug use, such as drug checking (adulterant screening); and
  • Improves relationships between law enforcement agencies and the communities they have sworn to protect and serve.

Football Star Plans To Open Cleveland Medical Dispensaries

Troy Smith brought a Heisman trophy to the state of Ohio and now he’s aiming to deliver marijuana dispensaries as well. The former Ohio State star and NFL player is partnering with his former high school coach Ted Ginn Sr. and former Cleveland Brown running back Eric Metcalf to launch a chain of Cleveland marijuana dispensaries.

As first reported by Tom Knox of Columbus Business First, the state of Ohio will select 24 candidates out of its 185 applicants to receive grow licenses. Governor John Kasich signed the state’s medical marijuana bill back in June 2016 and the program is supposed to be operational by September 2018.

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Smith told Knox his interest in medical cannabis grew because of head trauma experienced in his career. Various professional football players have advocated for the drug’s inclusion in the NFL’s policies and hope they can continue research on the drug’s various health benefits for dealing with pain and traumatic injuries.

Knox also posted on Twitter: “Troy Smith says marijuana can help college football players and players after their careers end. Dispensaries would be in Cleveland area.”

Smith is well-regarded in the state, thanks to his football legacy. The Heisman trophy winner helped Ohio State reach the national title game, though they lost to Florida 41-14. Smith last played in the CFL for the Montreal Alouettes back in 2014 It was also revealed the Smith trio will also partner with Washington dispensary owner Jim Buchanan.

An Essential Guide To Uruguay’s Marijuana Laws

Later this month, Uruguayans will be able to walk into a pharmacy and legally buy a gram of cannabis for about $1.3o — about half the current price of black market marijuana in the small South American nation. But before you book a trip to Montevideo or one of the charming beach towns, there are a few things you should know about Uruguay’s marijuana laws.

What You Should Know:

  • No cannabis for tourists: If you are not a resident of Uruguay, you will not be able to legally purchase marijuana. The program was designed for locals only in order to prevent an “Amsterdam-style” tourism industry. Uruguayan citizens and registered residents living in the country for two years will be able to buy up to 40g of marijuana per month from the pharmacy.
  • Don’t worry about being arrested for possession: Even though non-residents can’t buy it legally, don’t be afraid of getting busted if you are caught in possession. Since 1974,  personal use of cannabis has been decriminalised in Uruguay.
  • It’s already legal, but now you can buy it: In 2013, Uruguay legalized cultivation, distribution and consumption of marijuana. But pharmacies will now be authorized to sell it legally.
  • Where can I smoke it? If you are of legal age (18 or older), you can consume cannabis anywhere EXCEPT a public building or enclosed place of work.
  • Residents can grow their own: Citizens must register with the government in order to grow cannabis at home. One household is legally allowed to grow six plants.
  • What about international treaties? Yes, the nation with a population of 3.4 million is violating international law. Canada, too, will be defying international treaties when it begins legal national sales next year. The U.S. claims it is in accordance with the treaties because, even though the federal government still technically prohibits cannabis, although state laws disagree.
  • What about edibles? Nope. Infusing foods or beverages with cannabis will not be allowed.

Study: Being Kind Leads To Better Sex For Everyone

Kindness and being loved are some of our most basic human needs, just as primal and important as having food and shelter. It’s easy to offer kindness to strangers and to people you don’t spend a lot of time with, but sometimes it’s hard to offer the same for the people you’re with the most, like your family, friends and even your boyfriend or girlfriend. The good news is there is now proof that being kind leads to better sex.

When you spend a lot of time with someone it’s easy to take them for granted and to lash out when you feel like you’re needs aren’t being met. The longer you’re with someone, the more opportunities to foster resentment arise and you can choose to be vengeful and retaliate or to remain neutral and to not extend that olive branch. The best way to fight this problem and to avoid it all together is to be aware of it and to have it at the forefront of your mind; you can choose to be kind and understanding, to provide love for your partner even if you feel like they haven’t been at their best lately, and you’ll relationship will flourish and improve in all ways. You’ll be more intimate, closer than ever before and yes, you’ll have much better sex.

While it sounds very simple in theory, being kind to your romantic partner takes a lot of effort and work, especially when it comes to exposing yourself and being vulnerable. It’s easier to be critical and defensive, only wanting to validate and understand your side of the story. By being kind, you’ll satisfy your basic need of love and your partner will likely respond in the same way, making you feel much much more comfortable to engage in sex and to have meaningful conversations, which will create a deeper layer of intimacy.

Public Warning: The Dangers Of Children And Marijuana Edibles

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Washington residents voted to decriminalize recreational marijuana in 2012. Since then, there have been a handful of cases wherein children get their hands on marijuana edibles.

But has there been a noticeable uptick in marijuana-induced poisonings involving edibles and kids?

According to Washington Poison Control, the number of actual “pot poisonings” is relatively small, but the increased number of reported incidents involving children and marijuana is troubling.

Last year, there were 49 cases of kids under the age of 5 accidentally eating infused treats. And from July 2015 to July 2016, the Washington Poison Center received a total of 115 calls involving marijuana-related emergencies for both children and adults.

“It’s a growing problem, especially as products becomes more and more available, as it becomes more part of the culture.” Dr. Anthony Garrard with the Washington Poison Center told KOMO last July.

And now, a mother in Tacoma is the latest to blame the legalization of edible marijuana for getting her 14-month old accidentally high.

The mother, whose identity is not being released, tells KOMO News that her child found some edibles at a relative’s home and it wasn’t until she was taken to the hospital several times that doctors figured out she had consumed marijuana. The signs: laziness, sleepiness, agitation.

In the case of the Tacoma toddler, she reportedly wasn’t eating or walking and every time someone picked her up, she’d start crying.

Dr. Alexander Garrard with Washington Poison Center tells KOMO the most common scenario they see involves parents leaving products laying around. “They have it in the gym bag or purse. The kids are rummaging through the purse or gym bag and that’s how they find it. Parent has taken it out of the packaging and the child doesn’t recognize it.”

Nurse Deborah Schultz, also with WPC, says it’s important for family members who may be babysitting kids to differentiate regular candy from edibles.

We got a grandfather who was sort of babysitting the kids and found some edible candies. He gave the 7-year-old three (pieces). There was a 5-year-old. I think he ate a couple also. They felt very funny. The 7-year-old was crying a lot and got really upset because she didn’t know what was going on. She was pretty agitated.

As KOMO reports, Washington State Legislature just passed a bill that would allow marijuana retailers to give free lock box to their customers to store their products. And as of February, marijuana edibles are now required to have a prominent “Not for Kids” warning label on the packaging.

Gossip: Shia LaBeouf Apologizes For Racist Rant; Here’s Why Miley Cyrus Stopped Twerking

Shia LaBeouf was taken into police custody on July 8th in Savannah, Ga., under the suspicion of obstruction, disorderly conduct and public drunkenness.

According to reports, Shia was arrested outside of his hotel when he became disgruntled after a passerby refused to give him a cigarette.

During his arrest, the actor made startling comments to officers in a expletive-filled rant. In video footage taken from body cameras and recording devices posted at the station, Shia screamed at cops as he was taken to processing.

“I have rights, I’m an American. You’ve got me in my hotel, arresting me in my hotel. For doing what, sir? I’m a f**king American. I pay my taxes,” he yelled.

The actor also allegedly accused the police of being racist, telling one office, “A black man arrested me for being white.”

“You’re going to hell, straight to hell, bro,” he said.

Here’s Why Miley Cyrus Stopped Twerking

In the August 2017 issue of Harper’s Bazaar, Miley opened up about changing her tune and toning down her look. Reflecting on her past, the songstress said felt distant to who she was just three years ago.

“I feel really kind of far away from that person,” she shared. “I just want people to see that this is who I am right now. I’m not saying I’ve never been myself. … Who I was on the last record was really who I am. It’s just myself has been a lot of different people because I change a lot.”

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These Knives Raised Nearly $2M On Kickstarter

A knife set on Kickstarter has raised more money than most people will see in their lifetime.

The team behind Kuroi Hana Japanese knives, Edge of Belgravia, needed at least $30,000 to bring their knives to market when they launched their campaign in late May. To date, they’ve raised $1.8 million.

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Described in their video as “Japanese steel combined with futuristic London design,” Kuroi Hana knives consist of a whopping 67 layers of supreme quality steel, which has its origin in both Japanese samurai and Damascene sword making.

At full retail price, Kuroi Hana, a set of six knives will set you back $1,100. Backers received the set for just $299. Needless to say, the knives are all gone. A lot of folks are going to be getting really cool Christmas presents this year.

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