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Why Do Some Men Feel Sad After Sex?

For the first time ever, researchers have discovered that many men suffer from something called Postcoital Dysphoria — in other words, post-sex depression. 

Until now, the condition was thought to only effect women.

“We had conducted research on PCD in women, and the findings on the percentage of women who experience PCD seemed robust,” Robert Schweitzer, an author of the latest study from QUT’s School of Psychology and Counselling, told Newsweek. “And yet there were no similar studies relating to men.”

The study, published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, was conducted by scientists from the Queensland University of Technology (QUT) in Brisbane, Australia, who analyzed the results of an international survey involving more than 1,200 men from the United States, Australia, the United Kingdom, Russia, New Zealand, Germany and other countries.

According to the study:

41 percent reported experiencing PCD in their lifetime and 20% reported experiencing PCD in the previous four weeks. Between 3 – 4 percent of the sample reported experiencing PCD on a regular basis. PCD was found to be associated with current psychological distress, childhood sexual abuse, and several sexual dysfunctions.

Those dealing with PCD described feelings of wanting to be left alone, dissatisfaction, and general feelings of being “down in the dumps.” One participant described feeling “emotionless and empty”, while others described a sense of shame or feeling that something was wrong with them, reports Newsweek.

Schweitzer says this phenomenon is “counterintuitive, especially given the dominant cultural beliefs (or silence) round the experience of males,” especially in Western culture.

“These assumptions are pervasive within masculine subculture and include that males always desire and experience sex as pleasurable,” he said. “The experience of PCD contradicts these dominant cultural assumptions about the male experience [of] sexual activity and of the resolution phase.”

While it’s still unknown what causes PCD, there are likely several factors at play, both biological and psychological, according to researchers.

Now You Can See Exactly How Much Time You Waste On Instagram

Oh, lordy. We knew this was going to happen. Social media is slowly draining our life battery and now we can find out exactly how much. Both Facebook and Instagram have made it possible for us to find out exactly how much time we spend on the apps.

If you want to find this metaphorical nuclear button, here’s what you do. For Instagram, go to your Profile, select Settings, and tap Your Activity. And then close your eyes and squeeze something tight, preferably your knees while softly rocking back and forth in a dark corner. Because here you will have access to a bar graph that breaks down the average amount of time you spent on the app per day (or week, if you want to ease into this mess).

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Now, if you are not happy with that number, you have the option to Set A Daily Reminder and Notification Settings to help you manage your time on social media. Daily Reminders allow you to choose how much time you want to spend on Instagram each day, while Notification Settings allow you to “mute” notifications for up to eight hours.

The same goes for Facebook. To find out how much time you waste on the FacePlace (as moms like to call it), go to your Settings, and tap Your Time On Facebook.

It’s been documented that having access to social media can be beneficial to your health — keeping up with friends, seeing dog and baby photos, etc. —but when you start using the apps for evil, like stalking your ex or and just generally giving yourself a sense of 24/7 FOMO, things start to take a hard left. These new features will hopefully reduce the stress associated with this type of participatin. But let’s be real, they probably won’t.

[h/t Refinery29]

This ‘Game Of Thrones’ Castle Is For Sale And Cheaper Than A New York Apartment

“Game of Thrones” fans now have a chance to live inside the show they love so dearly. Northern Ireland’s Gosford Castle, which serves as the fictional Riverrun in Season 3, has hit the market and it’s cheaper than buying a Manhattan apartment.

The castle listed on the market at £500,000 (about $656, 267). The median price of a Manhattan apartment in 2015 was $915,000.

“GoT” fans will recognize Gosford as the ancestral castle of House Tully and central to Robb Stark’s storyline in the third season. While he was plotting his fatal campaign against the Lannisters, he lodged in the castle. The exterior of the castle loomed in the background when Robb memorably executed former ally Rickard Kastark, a move that would lead to his eventual doom.

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But the castle’s real-life history is fascinating. Check the listing information:

Built in the mid-1800s by the 2nd Earl of Gosford, Archibald Acheson, Gosford Castle is a grade A listed building.  It was designed in the Norman Revival style by London architect Thomas Hopper and was occupied by the Earls of Gosford until 1921. During the Second World War the Castle was commandeered and used to accommodate troops and prisoner of war camp was set up in the estate.

Following the war the Achesons sold the Castle to the Ministry of Agriculture who established the 590 acre demesne as Gosford Forest Park which was later designated Northern Ireland’s first conservation forest in 1986. The castle fell back into military use during The Troubles before being run as a hotel from 1983.

Part of the castle underwent renovations to convert the castle into luxury-style apartment units for potential investors to maximize profits. But come on, we all know the real selling point is ‘Game of Thrones’ here. Just don’t host any wedding here, please.

Check Out This ‘Shark Tank’ Inspired Marijuana Competition

To foster entrepreneurship and innovation in healthcare at its school, Thomas Jefferson University developed the Jefferson Acceleration Zone, or JAZ. Every year the school hosts a “Shark Tank”-style competition called the JAZ Tank, and hemp and marijuana start-ups will headline in 2018.

Though past winners have featured innovation in chemotherapy and artificial insemination procedures, cannabis will be the theme this year. “CannaVation” is what organizers are calling it, and the competition is open to Jefferson students, staff, and alumni, as well as the general public.

Considering the contest’s focus on health care, the cannabis theme could present some exciting potential. Whether it’s vaporizer dose control or re-inventing the grow house process, the CannaVation competition should create positive developments in using medical cannabis to treat patients.

“We want to see creative and different approaches to the industry, especially in ancillary businesses,” said Zoe Selzer McKinley, who serves as director at the Jefforson’s Lambert Center for the Study of Medicinal Cannabis and Hemp. “We want businesses that have some development already in place,” he added.

The grand prize winner will be handsomely rewarded with a cash prize of $10,000, plus free consulting services and legal support for patent application. Judges will also reward up to two runners-up, who will receive $5,000 and the same legal services. A fun small print detail for potential applicants: “JAZ reserves the right to award additional prizes.”

If interested in joining the CannaVation competition, the online application is due by August 20. Go here to learn more about the competition.

Which One Of These 6 States Will Legalize Marijuana Next?

It almost seems that marijuana legalization cannot miss. More than half the nation has made it legal for either medicinal or recreational purposes, and nearly every time the issue makes it on the ballot somewhere a heavy majority shows up in support. Even state lawmakers are becoming more in tune with the pot discussion. The only setback, at this point, is the fact that the federal government continues to act as though Nixon is still running the show. Nevertheless, there are no signs of a slow down when it comes to ending pot prohibition at the state level. Several more jurisdictions are on track for this reform. These are the six to watch, according to NORML.

Michigan

Although cannabis advocates have experienced some snags in getting this issue on the ballot in recent years, whether or not a recreational marijuana market should be unleashed in the Great Lake States is slated to be answered in the upcoming November election.

If met with approval, Michigan would be the first state in the Midwest to allow adults 21 and over to purchase cannabis in a manner similar to beer. And its chances are good. Some of the latest polls show that 61 percent of the voters intend to support the initiative.

New Jersey

Many believed the Garden State would be the next to ending marijuana prohibition. Governor Phil Murphy promised during his campaign that establishing a taxed and regulated pot market would be one of his top priorities. Of course, there have been some problems getting a bill through the legislative channels. Still, it is just a matter of time. Murphy reiterated during his latest budget address that legalizing marijuana was the “only sensible option.” The Senate is expected to start discussing a bill in the near future.

North Dakota

There is a solid push to legalize recreational marijuana in this part of the country. A campaign aimed at putting the question on the ballot in the upcoming November election recently met its signature goal. If approved by the Secretary of State, the concept of giving adults the freedom to buy weed in the same way they do with alcohol would be sorted out in a matter of months. The state approved a medical marijuana program in 2016. It has yet to be implemented. Not a single patient has been serviced.

New York

The Empire State is likely one of the next to legalize marijuana for adult use. Although Governor Cuomo has been resistant to this idea, a recent report from the Health Department, which was commissioned by Cuomo, shows that a taxed and regulated system would be the most logical step.

“A regulated marijuana program enjoys broad support and would have significant health, social justice, and economic benefits. … Regulating marijuana enables public health officials to minimize the potential risks of marijuana use through outreach, education, quantity limits at point of sale, quality control, and consumer protection. … The positive effects of a regulated marijuana market in NYS outweigh the potential negative impacts,” the report reads.

Oklahoma

Voters recently approved a statewide medical marijuana program. It wasn’t long thereafter that cannabis advocates decided to go for broke and push the concept of legalizing for recreational use. While the initiative is still in the signature-collecting phase, reports show that it has a fighting chance of qualifying for a sport on the ballot this November.

Delaware

The state is convinced that marijuana legalize is the right thing to do. Polls show that more than 60 percent of the voters support allowing adults 21 and older to purchase cannabis from legitimate sources. Even the lawmakers are in favor of this issue. The issue is expected to advance in 2019.

Kim Kardashian Says She Doesn’t Like Presents Anymore; Duchess Kate And The Queen Are Meghan’s BFFs

KIM KARDASHIAN: ‘WE DON’T DO GIFTS… I DON’T LIKE PRESENTS ANYMORE’

 

Some highlights:

On gift-giving: “I worry about giving my kids too much. We don’t do gifts. They have to really earn it. But we talk about it all the time, about not getting too much and just trying to be as grounded and well-rounded as possible.”<

Post-Paris robbery, she changed: “I don’t like presents anymore. I just don’t want that stuff right now. I don’t buy a lot. I used to buy myself something every birthday and just be like, ‘OK, if I work hard all year then I can treat myself to something—like a car or a pair of earrings. Something that I really wanted all year. But I’ve been getting rid of my cars. I used to really care. I loved cars. I still like them and I have a certain look, but I don’t care like I used to.”

She always worked: “I always was working. I never asked people for money. That was never really my thing. I always just figured it out.” Now, Kim is unsure if “it will be the same” for her kids. “It’s a different time. I don’t know if I’m going to do that. I’d have to discuss that with Kanye.”

She’s on a strict budget: “I don’t talk about specifics; I find that to be tacky and just inappropriate.” Rest assured, she writes, “I’m really on top of my financial situation. I do everything. I see everything, write every check—I’m on top of every last detail. I was always taught to be like that. It’s definitely helpful to have a manager or someone pay your bills so they go out on time, but I think once you start giving too much control away, you could really lose sight of what you have and what you need to do, especially if you spend a lot and have a big lifestyle.”

She knows what she spends monthly: “[I know] what it costs to run my household. It’s hard all the time to stick within a budget, for sure, but I think it’s a good guideline. And I’m the type of personality where I’m like, ‘OK, I really want to buy this, so I have to make this in order to be able to buy that for myself.’ So, I’ll make it happen.”

She’s been downsizing: “which has been making my managers happy… Kanye is a bigger shopper than me. He has big archives of stuff…”

PEOPLE: DUCHESS KATE & THE QUEEN ARE DUCHESS MEGHAN’S ‘CLOSEST FRIENDS’ – REALLY?

 

When it comes to feeling supported within the royal family, Meghan Markle has the ultimate champion in husband Prince Harry, but she also has two very senior royals to lean on as she adjusts to her new life: Queen Elizabeth and Kate Middleton. Since officially becoming a royal after her wedding on May 19, Meghan has had high-profile outings with both the Queen and Princess Kate. And their relationships are strengthening behind the scenes as well.

“What’s characterized these months are the two great relationships that she has struck up with the Queen and with Catherine,” Robert Lacey, historical consultant for The Crown, tells PEOPLE. “They seem to be her closest friends and partners in the official set-up.”

In fact, Meghan’s royal stamp of approval came very early on from a few beloved members of the Queen’s entourage: her corgis.

“Harry gave the clue to it when in the [engagement] interview he talked about how well the corgis had taken to her instantly. That seems to be a metaphor for the Queen and everybody else has taken their cue from that,” Lacey adds.

[From People]

Benefits Of Having A Medical Marijuana Card In A Rec State

Medical marijuana has been a part of life in California for over the past two decades. But now that the state has legalized the leaf for recreational use, adults 21 and over can simply walk into their local dispensary and purchase a variety of pot products without a medical marijuana ID. But while it is no longer necessary for a person to make up a phony excuse to get a doctor to provide them with a recommendation to smoke weed, this doesn’t mean there are not still some benefits to being a medical marijuana patient.

Availability is still a concern in some areas. This is because not every municipality in California is onboard with all of this recreational marijuana business. In fact, more than 300 cities have opted out of the commercial cannabis scene. There are actually more jurisdictions statewide that allow medical marijuana dispensaries than retail fronts for the recreational side.

Beyond that, the state’s medical marijuana program allows patients the freedom to keep higher possession limits and places fewer restrictions on purchase limits. Patients also do not have to wait until they are 21-year-ol to take advantage of medical marijuana. This sector is open to anyone 18 and older. Furthermore, in some parts of the state, patients are even allowed to grow more cannabis at home for personal use.

Although it is easier now to procure pot, as it is available for sale throughout California in a manner similar to alcohol, the medicinal side is still the only way to avoid paying taxes. A recent report from NuggMD indicates that going through the process of actually getting on the Medical Marijuana Identification Card (MMIC) program is one of the smartest ways to buy weed in the state.

“Most people just go for a marijuana recommendation and never bother with a MMIC since it doesn’t require state registration (sharing personal info scares some),” the article reads. “However, a MMIC is the only way to get a sales tax exemption.”

But enjoy medical marijuana while it lasts. These programs are struggling to survive in states that have taken it up a notch by welcoming in a recreational sector. It seems that fewer people are concerned about saving a few bucks on taxes and have become more enthusiastic about the convenience and product selection available through retail outlets.

The biggest decline in medical marijuana sales has happened in Oregon. The state has experienced a 42 percent decline since recreational sales began in 2015. In Nevada, which has only been selling weed on the recreational side for a little over a year, patient numbers have dropped 32 percent. In Colorado, the first state to go fully legal – it is much of the same. Medical marijuana patient numbers have fallen 22 percent.

Although there are some benefits to frequenting the medical marijuana market, recreational sales will eventually take over. As The Fresh Toast pointed out in a recent article, “although “medical marijuana” was how legalization was originally packaged, it is now on its last leg.” All it will take is for the U.S. government to end prohibition nationwide and medical marijuana will become nothing more than a footnote in the history books.

Medical Marijuana 2020 Could Turn Mississippi Into A Green State

Mississippians For Compassionate Care want access to medical marijuana for chronically, very ill or otherwise untreatable persons who could benefit from medical marijuana if they were to have access to it. They are the organization behind Medical Marijuana 2020, the campaign to legalize medicinal use in Mississippi.

Mississippi was once considered an unlikely state to go green at the ballot box, but as medical and recreational laws spread across the country and public opinion continues to grow more and more positive toward pot, there’s getting to be no really unlikely states. Oklahoma just enacted a new law, Utah is working up to it, Texas has one of the strongest NORML chapters on the map and the times they are a’changin’.

The proposed ballot measure needs to get more than 100,000 valid voter signatures by September 2019 to qualify for the November 2020 ballot. If it makes it and is then voted in by the people of Mississippi, the law would change to allow for physicians to certify medical cannabis for debilitating conditions and then patients would be able to obtain the marijuana at State Department of Health licensed and regulated treatment centers.

Qualifying conditions for Mississippi medical cannabis would include: “cancer, epilepsy and other seizures, Parkinson’s disease, Huntington’s disease, multiple sclerosis, post-traumatic stress disorder, HIV, AIDS, chronic pain, ALS, glaucoma, Crohn’s disease, sickle-cell anemia, autism with aggressive or self-injurious behavior, spinal cord injuries and similar diseases,” according to the campaign website.

The website for Medical Marijuana 2020 also focuses on cannabis being a safe alternative to opiates and as an important line of treatment for veterans, especially those who are currently using multiple prescriptions to combat PTSD, chronic pain and/or depression. Veterans account for around 20 percent of suicides in the U.S. and medical marijuana has proven to be a lifesaver for many in that respect.

Residents of Mississippi are being called upon by Medical Marijuana 2020’s site to help gather signatures on petitions to meet the 2019 deadline. Feet on the ground and grassroots measures are what got us to the point we’re at in the world of cannabis legality and Mississippi seems, at least on the surface, to have a good shot at choosing medical marijuana in 2020.

Rihanna’s Thin Eyebrows Are Surprisingly Popular

If there’s someone who can make even the most unlikeliest of things fashionable, it’s Rihanna. Apparently, that even includes thin eyebrows, which, against all odds and historical evidence, manage to look good on her.

Rihanna is featured on the cover of British Vogue‘s September issue, posing with some crazy flowers in her hair and sporting minimal pencil line eyebrows. According to Mashable, this marks the first time a black woman has appeared on the cover of Vogue‘s famous September issue since the magazine’s inception 102 years ago.

Rihanna’s looks and attitude drove the Internet crazy as expected, with some people praising her looks and imitating her, and some drawing the line at the thin eyebrows.

While a lot of people were really stressed out over the eyebrows, the majority of media and users were just proud that Rihanna was featured on British Vogue’s most important issue of the year.

The Country Of Georgia Just Decriminalized Marijuana

Radio Free Europe reports from Tbilsi that Georgia has decriminalized marijuana consumption. Georgia — a former territory of the Soviet republic — resides at the intersection of Europe and Asia, in the Caucuses. Georgians refer to their country as Sakartvelo.

The July 30 decision only applies to cannabis consumption. Selling and cultivating cannabis is still a criminal offense.

The ruling added the caveat that if an individual’s cannabis consumption endangered or put someone else, such as a child, at risk, then “punishing an individual for consuming cannabis would comply with the constitution,” according to RFE.

The ruling was induced by a lawsuit filed by activists of the liberal Girchi party. Girchi is an extra-parliamentary political party in Georgia that splintered off from the United National Movement. Girchi was founded in November 2015, after four lawmakers— Zurab Japaridze, Giorgi Khachidze,  Giorgi Meladze, and Pavle Kublashvili— quit the UNM, the formerly ruling and then parliamentary minority group. The name Girchi means “pine cone.” It was chosen as a symbol of greenery — like cannabis.

“According to the applicants [Zurab Japaridze and Vakhtang Megrelishvili], the consumption of marijuana is not an act of social threat. In particular, it can only harm the user’s health, making that user him/herself responsible for the outcome. The responsibility for such actions does not cause dangerous consequences for the public,” the court said.

“The Constitutional Court highlights the imposition of responsibility of marijuana consumption when it creates a threat to third parties. For instance, the court will justify responsibility when marijuana is consumed in educational institutions, public places, such as on public transport, and in the presence of children,” the court added.

The lawsuit stated in part that cannabis, “Can only harm the health of the consumer, who is responsible for the results of the action.”

Legalization activist Zurab Japaridze, who initially filed the lawsuit with the constitutional court told reporters that the ruling was a victory for a freer Georgia, RFE reports.

“This was not a fight for cannabis; it was a fight for freedom.,” he said. “Administrative punishment for consumption of marijuana was revoked by the Constitutional Court, which means that consumption of marijuana in Georgia is now legal,” he explained.

The Constitutional Court previously decriminalized consumption of Cannabis in November of 2017; however, it was still punishable by a fine.

Prior to that, Georgia’s Criminal Code outlined repeated cannabis consumption and possession of more than 70 grams of dried flowers as a crime. If caught, consumers could potentially be punished, but not incarcerated.

Not everyone was happy with the high court’s decision. “I do not agree with the decision of the Constitutional Court,” said Akaki Zoidze, member of governing party Georgian Dream-Democratic Georgia and chair of Georgia’s parliament’s healthcare committee.

“Cannabis consumption should be allowed only for medical purposes. Our aim was not to make marijuana accessible for everyone, but to reduce the number of drug addicts.,” Zoidze said.

The Girchi party has been at the forefront of marijuana reform action for the past seventeen months. Its members vowed that they would continue to fight for full marijuana decriminalization in Georgia.

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